We don’t face natural disasters or community-changing catastrophes everyday. But we do have an ever-growing crisis with substance abuse, which tears apart families in catastrophic ways. Mister Rogers was known for his determined efforts of fostering connection, “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’”
The consequences of substance use disorder (SUD) on communities through increases in crime, overdose deaths, homelessness, disease and fractured families are everyday “scary things in the news.” Families affected by addiction are the helpers needed and these families also need helpers in policymakers, counselors, peers, and support groups.
Why connection? Connection works both ways. Individuals with SUD use connection to tie themselves to their substance use. They acquire drugs, use, and commit crimes with their peers. When those connections are replaced with love, accountability and stability from family, research shows increased sobriety rates. Connection is the antidote to the isolation of SUD lifestyles. Families provide emotional support, stability and accountability, the antithesis of a SUD lifestyle. But, we must acknowledge that the burden on families is immense, help is needed for these helpers.
What can Utah do? First, fund family therapy in SUD treatment. Second, expand peer-led family support groups, like Al-Anon that have shown effectiveness in improving family dynamics and decreasing relapse. Third, establish family education programs. Fourth, encourage communities to create spaces for connection in recovery.
Why does it matter? Families are the foundation of recovery. Strengthening that foundation through connection, support and education, we can rebuild communities. As Mister Rogers reminded us, families are helpers — but they cannot do it alone. Let’s become helpers to the helpers and fight SUD together for sustainable change.
Alyssa Sanderson, Holladay
