Farmington, N.M. • She was a budding musician and talented artist, a girl whose death at the hands of a man who lured her into his van spread grief far beyond her home on the Navajo Nation.
More than 3,000 people turned out Friday for Ashlynne Mike's funeral in Farmington, N.M., weeping as images of the 11-year-old girl were displayed overhead and the sounds of her xylophone rang out in the auditorium. A headstone created for her grave read "our little angel in heaven."
The crowd far outnumbered the community of Lower Fruitland, where Ashlynne was raised with her father and siblings. Entire families, hugging one another and their children, sat before her small white coffin. Many wore yellow T-shirts. Navajo Nation Council Speaker LoRenzo Bates said yellow represents hope, strength and resilience, and it was one of her favorite colors.
New Mexico Gov. Susana Martinez called on the mourners to carry on the kindness Ashlynne showed the world.
"I cannot imagine the pain Ashlynne's loved ones feel right now," the governor said. "But even as we mourn her, we should celebrate her life and remember what a beautiful little girl she was, inside and out."
More than 200 miles away in Albuquerque, Tom Begaye Jr. waived his right to a preliminary and detention hearing, and a judge ordered him to remain in custody on charges of kidnapping and murder. Public defender James Loonam was assigned to represent him, and did not immediately respond to requests for comment.
An FBI agent's affidavit says Begaye, a 27-year-old Navajo who lived down a stretch of highway from the children's home, persuaded Ashlynne and her 9-year-old brother, who had been playing near their bus stop after school, to climb into his van. The boy told police that the man took them deep into the desert, and then walked off with his sister to an even more remote spot, before returning alone.
Begaye told investigators he assaulted the girl and struck her twice in the head with a crowbar, and that she was still moving when he left her, according to the affidavit.
The slaying has raised tough questions for both residents and law enforcement on the country's largest American Indian reservation, which stretches for 27,000 square miles into New Mexico, Utah and Arizona. Eight hours passed between the family's initial missing-persons report and an Amber Alert that went out at 2:27 a.m. Tuesday.
Her body wasn't found until later that morning, south of the Shiprock Pinnacle, just inside the border of the Navajo Nation in the northwest corner of New Mexico.
One of Ashlynne's brothers, Ryan Begay, told the audience at her funeral that he drove around the monolith for hours in the darkness, looking for his sister. He said he asked for an alert at 10:30 p.m., and grew more upset with each passing hour.
"I really wish that this alert went out a lot sooner," he said, prompting strenuous applause.
Ashlynne's younger brother told police that he tried to find his sister after the man left him at another spot in the desert. Then he ran for help and was spotted by a couple driving along the highway who took him to police. The boy was so distraught that he couldn't describe what happened with enough detail to focus the search, they said.
But Navajo families extend far beyond bloodlines, through traditional clan systems that foster kinship among tribal members, and the law enforcement delays didn't prevent a hundred community members from searching for Ashlynne.
Rick Nez, president of the Navajo Nation's local San Juan chapter, urged people to express their love to one another.
"Don't ever forget to go to bed and rise in the morning and say, 'I love you my precious child,' " Nez said.
